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Name: Su Ling
Location: Georgetown, Penang, Malaysia
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Thursday, May 26, 2005
Chance or Choice?
Something that I read not long ago..something really sweet..something that make you smile that you have someone with you in your life..a chance that God has created for you but always your choice to have it..be thankful for it.When we meet the right person to love, at the right place, at the right time, that's chance.When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice... that's chance.Being caught up in a moment (and there are a lot of couples who get together because ofthis) is not a choice, that's also chance. The difference is, what happens afterwards.Will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and then contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.If you decide to love the person, even with his or her faults, that's not chance... that's choice.When you choose to be with a person no matter what, that's a choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice.Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true lovethat last is truly achoice... a choice that we make.Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this:"Fate is building a bridge for someone you love."I do believe that soulmates do exist, that there is truly someone made for you... but it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not.We may meet our soulmates by chance, but loving and staying with our soulmate is still a choice we have to make...
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